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Originally Posted by Purple_alien

I have a serious anxiety problem. I somehow got involved in this Muslim youth group, on the executive board. (I think at the time, I thought I was over my anxiety issues, but I was wrong) They had a retreat, which I loved, but I didn't really want anyone to know I was on the board. Now, they are starting chapters and as the NJ rep, I am kinda in charge of starting the Jersey chapter. I had a meeting and got so sick right before. During the whole session, I kept stopping and saying dumb jokes, but I was SO nervous. Afterwards, I was still so shaky. I don't think I can do this. I get freaked out too easily. I don't even want to tell people about the group because I don't want to have to talk in front of new people.

i can relate on some levels. been there. weird thing about me is even though, i might be sick due to my anxiety. i always blame it on somehting else. i'd suggest that you should take a good friend along with you, let him/her sit while you talk and keep making eye contact with the familiar faces, so you don't have to face the new ones so often. also, practicing your speech before hand should help produce a clear coherent speech. iA.

i dont know which group are you refering to, but i dont always believe things have to so formal. you can make it into informal discussion group of somesort. discuss the goals/future plans of this new chapters etc..jokes aren't always bad to break the ice. just keep 'em coming whenever you feel like you had enuf of serious talk. : btw: there's no way out of this issue, until you consider it a challenge and overcome that this weakness. its easy, believe me. just don't underestimate yourself. i hope things will go smoothly for ya