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Originally Posted by jinnzaman
Most of the people I know who engaged in hijra were those who moved into areas of the Muslim world that had very little interaction with Western culture. The Emigrants that I do not watch television or listen to music or go to movies and they wouldn't allow their children to do that either.
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yupyup. i agree. if your not going to expose them to music/movies/etc whether western or eastern, then they will have limited knowlegde to it.
but as i saw with the families i noe, they didnt allow any of htat stuff within their own house or children either and the children came back messed up. when asked pretty much why they are the way they are, they said the access to very haram things (porn, filthy music, etc) was everywhere in saudi and egyptian schools, islamic and non islamic ones.
one of my friends who lives in Saudi said that homosexuality is growing at an alarming rate amongst the youth in saudi schools because of so much segregation. she said that families trust when theyre children are at their friends house (who are many times children of the parents friends), and start to do haram things, simply because the parents are so clueless that this could happen in an islamic school in a muslim country. Allahu Alim , may Allah(SWT) keep us away from such sins, but i always ask myself what is the best balance in raising children because one day i want to be a parent inshallah and do the best i can.