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Originally Posted by Sugarberry
I dont see whats wrong with the slient treatment,(for like a day or so) I think its better to keep quite, then say things youll regret later.
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i think salika is just trying to point out that some people just dont have the desire in them to give others the silent treatment or curse them out. she's really just talking about the way people deal with their anger, not that it's never going to happen
the way you deal with your temper and anger can heavily influence the argument by either making it worse for everyone (blown out of proportion if it's a small issue, etc) or it can do you good
and sometimes things aren't so black and white. if someone doesn't feel their point is being understood by the other person, they'll do things like give someone the silent treatment to make a point. but again, another person in the same exact situation might just be like, ok, we need some space. let's get out of each other's faces for a while, thanks.
it's kind of like, you don't absolutely have to resort to cursing. there are better ways and just because it is seen as a little more acceptable if a guy does it or couples do it then that doesnt mean it makes it ok.
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Originally Posted by new_muslimah
Ummm isn't that generalizing as well?
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it's a stereotype based on the type of culture desi and arab girls grow up in.