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Originally Posted by displaced
like I said..I'd love to get your opinion in 10 years. no one's saying that talking things out isn't the right way to do things. however, marriage isn't come magical union. it's two people who've decided to share a life together. you must've argued with your family over something at some point, why would you assume your husband will be different? living with anyone day in and day out, little things are bound to get to you. you're bound to not like them very much for awhile. you're bound to argue over things you care deeply about.
and it's okay. because at the end of the day, you're committed and you'll work things out.
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I really think you're misunderstanding me then or I'm not being clear? I never said it's a magical union where everything is hunky dorey. Do I argue with my parents and siblings? Of course I do but I very never curse at them or give them silent treatments or anything of the like. I really do everything that I can to not raise my voice even and I hope over the years I get better at that. Usually a few hours everything is back to normal.
I really just want to stay away from the mistakes my parents made. I can't change the way my parents did things but I can control my own actions and learn from them. That will take work but ya, I'm totally committed
