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Originally Posted by Hanbali
On a serious and unbiased note, don't you think that women nowadays are disobedient and rebellious to their husbands?
Again, try not to let your opinion be affected by the fact that it is I who asked this.
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They are confused and trying to do too much at once. This leads to chaos in their minds. It is not their fault. Don't blame them, help them.
Have you ever seen this show called Super Nanny?
In that show, the child is not punished, but given guidance and boundaries. There is one method called the Naughty Step, where the child is given a timeout if it misbehaves. It is not demeaning, but reinforces boundaries for the child. Everyone needs boundaries in some shape or form. I don't see why this should be limited to children. I think this could work with other family members, including the wife.
Naughty Step could revolutionise the way we interact with others, because it doesn't punish or demean, but corrects bad behaviour.

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