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Originally Posted by shadha
Salika: I never said we'd never get angry. In fact I've said we would have squabbles, I know that's reality.
Squabbles? Lol.
It really is oki to have arguments, some argue that arguments are actually healthy for you. I don't know who says that, hell I could have just made it up, so don't quote me on that. 
shadha-
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I'm not sure how arguing can be healthy (assuming we have the same idea/definition of arguing).... I just don't see it as productive. I think it's healthy to talk things out and express your feelings in a civilized manner though. Sure there will be instances when someone gets really angry or upset, but we hope those are anamolies and only over really sincere issues. Often times, people (not just couples) make the pettiest thing into this huge issue and anger is really counterproductive in those situations.
Anyways, to each his own... it's fine to disagree of course but really unnecessary to have a condescending attitude about it.