oh god. this post kind of made me sick.
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Dang...
I'm so tempted to make fun of you white boy...  but I wont... |
are you tempted to make fun of revert because he has a best friend type relationship with his wife? what's wrong with that?
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Originally Posted by ShahRukh
I dont see how your marriage would last with a desi/arab girl for too long... muslim girls in general are pure drama, not to mention a lot more challenging to deal with than white girls...they usually need a strong man who can keep them on the right path and guide them and all... |
muslim girls are drama? reverts wife is muslim i think? anyway thanks for making such a blanket statement. arab and desi girls are actually raised to be a LOT more submissive to their husbands than other muslim girls.
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Originally Posted by ShahRukh
I think I'm gonna have to agree with Salika here ...
Marriage is the biggest test in one's life, flip the coin it can be the biggest blessing as well. I've seen many people prosper economically, educationally, religiously, etc. after marriage...it's not even funny. The examples are there, you just have to look outside the box to find them..
there are some very noble women in my family that I never heard or seen them fight or even raise their voice over their husbands...and their husbands tremendously respect them as well.
It's very possible and it exists. I think it depends on both the husbands and wive's upbringing, patience instilled by their parents, and how much they're willing to compromise for each other for the sake of a Higher being.
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what shadha said about arguing in public being tacky is absolutely correct.