[shadha]

Shah: there are some very noble women in my family that I never heard or seen them fight or even raise their voice over their husbands...and their husbands tremendously respect them as well.

The bolded word is the keyword. You shouldn't be subjected to witnessing an argument between any couple, whether they are in your family or not. Arguments are private and should be dealt with as such. It is so tacky [read: ghetto] to argue in public. I do think you can disagree but if you know you can't agree to disagree in public, then you're better off battling it out in private.

On the other hand, I do think it is healthy for your children to see you peacefully argue with your spouse. I do believe it is a learning tool for them. Now if you're an outrageous arguer and near deadly, then no I don't think kids should witness that mess...and I think you need some Dr. Phil help.

Arguing, like agreeing, is apart of life.


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