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Originally Posted by Revert
But behind your back they would be slagging you off and wish you were more like me, trust me I know, i've heard it first hand  Aunties and Sisters often complain and wish I was their son/brother... |
Dang...
I'm so tempted to make fun of you white boy...
but I wont...
I dont see how your marriage would last with a desi/arab girl for too long...
muslim girls in general are pure drama, not to mention a lot more challenging to deal with than white girls...they usually need a strong man who can keep them on the right path and guide them and all...
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Originally Posted by Bruinrab
I've gotta agree with displaced here. My parents marriage is awesome, but there have been plenty of times where they were made at each other for several days at a time. The usual pattern is that mom is patient and eventually dad backs down when he realizes he's being silly. 
Momma's always right...she's the one with the velan! |
I think I'm gonna have to agree with Salika here ...
Marriage is the biggest test in one's life, flip the coin it can be the biggest blessing as well. I've seen many people prosper economically, educationally, religiously, etc. after marriage...it's not even funny. The examples are there, you just have to look outside the box to find them..
there are some very noble women in my family that I never heard or seen them fight or even raise their voice over their husbands...and their husbands tremendously respect them as well.
It's very possible and it exists. I think it depends on both the husbands and wive's upbringing, patience instilled by their parents, and how much they're willing to compromise for each other for the sake of a Higher being.