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Old 05-06-2008, 07:02 PM
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Default Re: To the girls on Islamica....would you..

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Originally Posted by ShahRukh View Post

I was trying to draw a correlation b/w black women being rebellious and high divorce rates...

Black men are clearly not angels either...their promiscous behaviour is a huge part of the problem.
Dont be so sterotypical...its not cool.

and to answer your question...It totally depends on what me and my {supposed) husband are fighting about, ...if its over something like he didnt take my side aganist a family member i would be more inclined to cook him dinner as opposed to a fight where he cursed my parents. ( hypothetically speaking of course).

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Originally Posted by raatkirani2005 View Post
I have never nor would I ever not cook for my husband. We've had plenty of major fights, but there's always been food on the table for him. If it's a regular falling out over something that will eventually smooth over, I continue as is. As a matter of fact, I'll make him laugh by asking him as he's taking the first bite, "how do you know I didn't poison your food?" Witholding food is not an effective tactic, and it comes across as slightly immature.
it also immature to worry about a cooked meal, above making sure the argument is resolved with your wife.
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