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Originally Posted by ShahRukh

One boy one girl living in a dorm...i dont see how it becoming a norm anytime soon.



lol...that is sooo true. I think that applies to muslim girls a lot more than non-muslim ones...

I find that desi/arab muslim girls are pure drama...a great deal of them.

not to mention, the pseudo-religious pseudo-practicing girls are the most confusing drama queens ever....one week they're feeling too religious and will not talk to guys and suddenly delete them from msn, facebook, etc., and the next week they turn 180' and start chilling with guys, hanging out without any hesitation, doing things they wouldn't do the previous week...


I mean, either dont talk to guys at all, or draw a line, develop your comfort zone, be professional in your conduct, and give us all a break...

ouch, ya cut ma deep yo, ya cut ma deep

Originally Posted by AbuSadiq

I am a @$$ because I bring people's sisters and mothers in arguments

Thanks for sharing.

Originally Posted by displaced

I don't have many male friends. although I find that male friendships can have their pitfalls, guys are easier to deal with than girls. you guys don't pull the crap girls do..all the gossiping and backstabbing and cattiness.

Guys can. Religious girls are pretty good at not doing that though, they won't talk about you. From my observations drama happens when it goes two ways. Keep conflicts to only yourself and the other combatant and it all turns out halal in the end. InshAllah.

Originally Posted by thejellymill

I agree. And that is why, sadly, most of my friends are non-Muslim (semi-religious or religious Christians). Not that I don't love them and all but it would be nice to have more Muslimah friends too, people I can relate to more.

Yeah at my college I enjoy being in the MSA and being blissfully ignorant about mushkiL7a which comes from not associating to much.. but then again non-Muslim women are pretty liberal about talking about stuff i really don't want to hear. A group sat at the table I was at and I had to excuse myself and leave politely. I thought I was going to throw up.

Originally Posted by Bruinrab

Were you responding to me or sally?

Because liberalism encompasses a huge spectrum of beliefs, from kooky amoral bohemians to people who believe in actively helping those around them. Likewise, conservatism can span from neocons to highly moral, compassionate people.

Taking a moral issue and giving it a political spin has led to some of the biggest problems we have right now.

My mother calls me a bohemian.

Originally Posted by ChotooMotoo

Just imagine sharing your dorm room with a boy, which means sharing the bathroom too. What happens when it's your time of the month? What do you do with the uhh.... thing?

*chuckles*