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Originally Posted by Sugarberry
Intresting, I disagree.
you might be the exception to the rule, but I currently dorm and I would say the majority of the guys i come across ( muslim or nonmuslim) would within a semester bed a girl they were dorming with ( with the pretense they were friends first).
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Yeh, I'm sure there are plenty of guys who would, but the girl has a vote in that too. I don't think the article was talking about randomly pairing up guys and girls, either; I think if there are two people who already know each other and request to room together, then they're allowing that. That's all.
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Your also down playing the influence of shaytaan, but maybe thats because you haven't seen the gradual process of evilness he can do to people.
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Well for me I wasn't. Then again, I don't think having sex before marriage is an evil thing though, nor do I think 'shaytaan' does either... (I'd say hormones do). So we're really coming at it from two different sets of assumptions.
But I'll mention again, if you're not constantly thinking about 'sinful' sex that could happen, the other person ceases to become a sexual object and just becomes your friend/roommate/travel buddy, whatever. It's kinda funny that way.