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Old 05-04-2008, 12:37 PM
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Default Re: One boy, one girl -- one dorm room

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Originally Posted by Variable View Post
Uh no... no it's not nonsense at all, it's my experience. Because it lands well outside the realm of your conceivable experience doesn't make it nonsensical.

Having done a lot of backpacking and traveling, I've often stayed in the same room, tent or even bed as a girl (sometimes two ) out of necessity. And brace yourself... we never even 'almost' had sex. It wasn't hard either...even when we kind of liked each other. In most cases if Shaytaan was the third, he would have had to be holding a gun to my head to get anything to happen.

I'm not saying it could never lead to sex, for sure - but you know when it would and when it's wouldn't and that is the exception, not the rule. When people aren't constantly on guard and uptight about relations with the opposite gender, something magical happens... the Shaytaan thing by and large dissappears.
Intresting, I disagree.

you might be the exception to the rule, but I currently dorm and I would say the majority of the guys i come across ( muslim or nonmuslim) would within a semester bed a girl they were dorming with ( with the pretense they were friends first).

Your also down playing the influence of shaytaan, but maybe thats because you haven't seen the gradual process of evilness he can do to people.
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