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Originally Posted by Tiger786
I feel like I'm living in hell. This topic comes up frequently and it seems the only way to please my parents is just to say yes and go through with it. They're saying "we won't force you" but that's basically what they are doing. I have been really obedient to my parents my entire life. I never went against them. I guess I deserve this for being so obedient to them...My mother was just saying today "You were so obedient all this time and now you are giving me a really hard time."  |
It would not be fair to the guy for you to marry him if you don't feel it. Imagine how degraded he would feel if he knew that you married him just because you were forced. Somewhere out there is a girl who would love to marry him, so let him be with that person. Meanwhile, you will get someone who you would love to be with, insha-Allah.
Can you imagine your husband turning to you one day twenty years down the line, saying "I didn't want to marry you at all; my parents forced me to!"