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Originally Posted by Tiger786
well at least you did medicine so you were able to say "I'm not ready."
I'm getting old now too by desi standards and the pressure is getting pretty intense. I've been lectured by pretty much everyone in my family as well as numerous family friends. I wish this would be easier for me.There were a few proposals that my parents liked but I don't. I made istikhara for one and I had a negative feeling inside after doing it a few times.
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Hmm...I was in a complicated (read "bad") relationship for a while, so that took up a few years too. And I agree with PhDGirl, you're the one who has to live with the guy. If it doesn't feel right, don't do it.