[thejellymill]

Originally Posted by sumiyia

awwwwww may Allah swt give them the strength to deal with this and recover from it completely.. and may He keep ourselves and our children safe from such abuse. ameen

ameen. I cant believe the parents never knew. Desis never talk about this stuff with kids. I remember when I was little and we came to the US for a visit during the school year. I had to go to school here for about a month and the first day my mom sat me down in the morning and said "now if anyone says anything to you or touches you in a place that doesn't feel right, let me know okay?" i felt so awkward at the time but at least she had enough brains to say that. I could never imagine a desi parent saying that and thats what this friend just told me when i asked if his/her parents ever said anything or found out..."desis dont do that"