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Originally Posted by zakk
Everyone gave good advice, I don't have any additions right now.
NewMuslima, I'm in Silicon Valley if you need anything, ok?
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Awww
Mash'Allah you're so sweet!! I live at Pacific Heights
So we had an extremely long family conference that spanned several days...I'm so drained
But alhamdulillah. I talked with my father and his wife first and kept the younger ones out. I told him, hi, remember us? And I spoke to his wife alone as well about what we need and what will work best for all of us.
Next weekend we're going to include my sisters, but so far what us adults have come up with is to have my younger sis move back to my dad's house, go to school and I'll be close by and my father's wife will also play a role. And Saya has always wanted to go to France, so we're thinking that maybe she can study there (my mum was from there, so we still have lots of family and grandparents there).
But we have to discuss it all together and see what happens. I don't think up to now my father has processed the loss of my mother and thats another thing I talked to him about. He may start seeing a therapist...insh'Allah!!
So thats all I have for now...JazakAllah Khairun everyone