[Haramoobobi]

A friend and I had a misunderstanding and she went off. I gave her three days to cool down before I explained myself. She broke all ties with me. I talked about the situation with people who didn't know her and who encouraged me to keep calling her after those three days and try and clear it up with her (literally 7 calls--until I just left her a voicemail).

She had made this hole into a mountain and I cleared it up alhumdullah by staying calm and thoughtful. Later she admitted that she talked about me to people I knew. Alhumdullah I didn't ask advice from people we both knew or I suspect that would have made things really messy.

I am kinda irked talking about it, but I wanted to impart this valuable lesson.

Alhumdullah we're friends now. Even though deep inside I am injured.