we paid about $50/head for around 350 people + $3,000 for decorations (flowers, stage, aisle, chaircovers, center pieces, favors) + $3,000 for photographer/videographer + mehndi hall and its decorations and catering + mayoun decorations and feeding everybody + wedding dress + buttload of jewelry + gifts for like the whole khandaan + clothes clothes clothes + invitations
so yea... i don't think bud is that far off for the whole figure of around 100K..