[shadha]

SAOD: If he is not muslim, then at least the greater part of what she stated is true...
His Life is completely opposite to hers...
He is a kfr man.
She is a muslim woman.
No non-muslim can ever have a concept of Al-Mustaqim...
I do agree on part the generalizations are horrible.
But the misconceptions you've stated just about negate the reason for your post.

You contradicted yourself.

You said in this thread [and another] that generalizations are horrible, however, you claim that the "greater part" of what she said is true- while the overwhelming majority of what she said is nothing but generalizations and accusations against Vari.

I bolded the generalizations and accusations she made:

Songbird: Variable, at the end of the day, you're not a Muslim who lives his life in accordance by a set of rules sent down by his Creator, Allah swt.
You live your life in complete antithesis to mine.
You have no qualms with nudity, and that's your prerogative. You probably have no problems either in dating a promiscuous woman, or a woman who has had many sexual partners too.
If you meet a girl you like, it wont matter to you how many sexual partners she's had because unlike me, you're not bound by a set of moral codes. So long as it's all consensual, then all's good right?
It is therefore futile for me to explain to you the significance of Haya in my life, and for millions of other Muslimahs. To you, we're prudes, plain and simple. We don't know how to have sex [because we weren't taught] and this is further 'hampered' or exacerbated because we can't even discuss the topic openly like good ol' Westerners do, right?
You define all this as being antiquated and restricted, but I say, thank Allah for these 'restrictions'.
I don't wish to cause any offense to you - we're both adults [though my friends will attest to my lifelong struggle to avoid such a designation] so we should be able to speak directly from the heart and mind. Without the latter and we are in the realm of superstition. Speech without the former is like a pebble rattling on a dry ground.

....need I say more? That entire post, along with the rest of her posts in this thread, are the epitome of asinine.


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