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Originally Posted by shadha

Question for the *Married Sisters*: how does your husband feel about you working out? How does he feel about you loosing weight? You gaining muscles? Do you find that he's completely encouraging? Trains with you? Cooks/buys healthy food for you both? Is motivated by you? Or does he encourage you to a point? Does he say, "you look fine the way you are, why change?" sort of things? Or is he completely put off by you loosing weight and/or gaining muscle? Becoming resentful and sabotages?

I ask this of the married sisters because as husbands, they are closer to the bodies of their wives than a fiance would be.


shadha-

He tells me it's good to be healthy so he's happy I work out (so does he) but when I complain to the mirror that I'm fat he says, 'you're fine the way you are' . I have a feeling he might be afraid to some extent that I'll go back to how I was in the days when I was craaaaaazy about working out...I was a freaking stick figure and he hated that .