Allahu Akbar for my parents. My parents believe in independence and not relying on or becoming parasites for their children to live with for the rest of their lives. My parents get offended at the thought of them having to be dependent on us. InshaAllah we plan on living close to my parents when they get old. If it's something serious we will have a home/apartment next door. So each still has their privacy and independence but we're close enough to oversee what's going down. I think that's the best way to do it.
shadha-
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You may shoot me with your words,
You may cut me with your eyes,
You may kill me with your hatefulness,
But still, like air, I'll rise.
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