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Originally Posted by GOTFIVEONIT

well since my post was removed in another topic displaced ill ask you here then, since you at least have been civil with me, so im willing to pay attention to at least what you have to say about this. If a girl demand's a man earning $100k salary a year, which is alot of money, especially with this really bad economy, the housing market gone bad, heck i read in yahoo news you could now practically buy a mansion for only cool million bucks believe it or not, if a girl going to sell her self at that price, and thats the lease a man pays to have a wife for life, then shouldnt she then do whatever she told by him? i mean he is paying that lease, shouldnt she do what her tells her, wear whatever he wants her to wear and i do mean ANYTHING, have his meals cooked and ready for him, no back talking, no drama, no fighting and arguing, and most of all nookie whenever he wants it, on call 24/7? You pay for your car, what if your car decides it doesnt feel like letting you drive it today? i mean you paid for it right? ok thats a machine it cant feel anything. what if your pet dog doesnt follow commands and bark and roll over? its a pretty expensive dog too, a french poodle for example, i mean you paid for that dumb dog, its yours, you own it, shouldnt that dog then do what its told? how can indian/pakistani chics whine and cry about how they are treated like maids and then sell themselves off to the highest bidder then? whose fault is that then when the guy starts thinking hey i paid for her. You know what i would pay for? a baby's mama and thats it. In a situation like that, I will not and refuse to garuntee any sort of monagamy on my part, but i will promise infedelity, because i only need her for a baby's mama - i can have a relationship with a kaffir who actually gives a daam about me.

While I can't say I agree with much of your post, it does remind me of something that came up with my parents when I got married, the concept of the mahr. I just couldn't get behind it, it just didn't feel like something we should participate in. Despite the insistence of my parents, we went without it and we've had a pretty wonderful marriage so far. I don't know, it just felt like I'd be "buying" my wife, which is a thought I never wanted to have in my marriage.

Originally Posted by GOTFIVEONIT

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