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Originally Posted by sally
i'm so unbelievably content being single these days, alhamdulillah... i've been hearing all these reality, slap in your face type stories about adjusting after marriage and especially in laws related drama..and i'm thankful i don't have to deal with any of that because i don't know if i'm ready..i'm so glad i don't have to factor in a whole family before doing anything right now. all i need is my parents permission. and if i think that's hard, man that's nothing compared to what goes down in the married zone. a lot of times all you hear is the nice stuff about marriage, but there's plenty of sacrifices that need to be made in order for those few happy moments and im not sure im ready to invest so much effort in something. i'm just so content having my own space and being able to do things that i want when i want.
anyway i dont mean to sound selfish or stuck up, much love to all those who are hitched or getting hitched.  may Allah make things easy for you all, ameen |
ameen to the duaa.
and yeah, i agree with you. not that i dont want to get married, of course i want to eventually..but im definitely not one of those girls thats dying to get married. alhamdulillah i like my life as it is and i know things will be very different once im married. not bad different, just different...and more complicated because like you said youre not thinking 'me' anymore, its 'us'.