[ChotooMotoo]

How come your husband can't see your private parts, he who is closer to you than your father or mother, but your Ob-GYN can, and so can all the assistants when you have a baby. That doesn't make any sense at all "Doctor, who is not my Mahram, please help me deliver this baby which requires you to look at my private parts, but please make sure my husband doesn't come in the room, he's not allowed to see those things"

Whether it's better modesty to keep them hiden from eachother is a seperate matter. Certainly spouses should be modest with eachother to some extent. To say that it's bad to see those places, or that it's sinful or something seems very silly to me. Are you sinning when you get your pap smear every year?