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Originally Posted by Timbit
So you are going into the marriage with the intention to change them?
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I certainly wouldn't encourage anyone "expecting" to change their spouse, but your goal is to please your spouse and if there's something about you that s/he finds so repugnant that you are asked to change, especially if it's something small like smacking your lips or something, it would behoove not only the relationship but also the individual to change.
I always say.