[Hard2Hit]

Salaams,

So I was wonderfooling... would having a wife already, be deemed bad if someone matches all the points in your "good" list?

For me:

Good: Super deeni, and if she could occassionaly slow dance for (or with) her husband at the right time and place (read, an intimate moment that is fitting), that would be awesome.

Bad: Having fun chit chat with guys without any business need, abusive langauge, opinionated to the bone.

That said, I dont think there is anything strikingly bad with most of the muslimahs out there, unless they are really spoilt or outright rude. And I still believe that people can be changed with love and care.