sorry to hear that..
i dont doubt that it's the toughest thing in the world
at least you're married to somebody you cant live without! that must be loooove
i hope things work out for you.
and distance makes the heart grow fonder, or something
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Originally Posted by PhDGirl
Sally, I think it depends. Like for you, I think it would be nice if you found someone who's into fitness since that's such a big part of your life. My husband and I do have some similar interests and that is something we talked about, but it's not like we share every single hobby or anything. Your spouse should also be your friend if possible, so some common ground is helpful for that.
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yeah..but like, the working out thing is my own time..i dont want to share it with anyone..not selfish but it's like a zone out/get away for me and i wanna keep it that way. plus if i got a husband who wanted to work out we wouldnt be able to do that together bc id go to a womens gym
anyway i still think youre right. common ground is necessary..and common ground in terms of values and stuff solely just doesnt cut it sometimes. that happens to me with my friends or new friends i make, and i dont even live with them..i lose interest if theres nothing common to discuss every so often