assalamu alaykum
I know i'm a bit late
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Originally Posted by sally
oh i have a question for the married people too.
what kind of stuff is important to have in common with a potential spouse? like, i dont know..aside from religion/values blah blah..i mean like just stuff...interests..activities, etc..do people even look at that? or does it just kinda fall into place? i know a lot of newly married people for whom things arent so bad but it's really frustrating for both people in the relationship to spend quality time together because their idea of having fun isnt the same..
cuz i dont wanna get bored of somebody  |
I think you should generally find the same things fun( not ALL things, that's pretty impossible). I think your husband/wife should be your best friend, I don't see how it can work any other way, but different things work for different people. I think that's why i'm so happy in this isolated country, and i'm pretty much friend-less, but i'm happy with that cos mr.zzze and i go and just do random things and be dorky and it's fun
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Originally Posted by Sugarberry
Married ladies...and Ladies who've been in multiple relationships...
how alike in either personality or physical aspects is your husband, similar to your father or brothers?
Is that old saying "girls marry guys like their fathers" ?
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My husband and father are nothing alike alhamdulilah. My dad is an angry, beardless, black man and my husband is the exact opposite, alhamdulilah, masha Allah I don't think it'd work any other way as I'm an angry person, so two angry people would be explosive.
On second thoughts, my husband is the same as my dad is the sense that he's a people person, bends the rules and is a salesman typa guy. But apart from that..opposites
I'm going to go cook now
