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Originally Posted by sally
damn straight. was just gonna add that. good thinking afifa
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I don't think its fair for people to say that a grown man shouldn't have to be babied. Everyone needs their ego stroked once in a while. Women/girls don't want to admit it, but how many times do we crave for a guy to compliment us and give us a little attention? How does it in turn make us feel? I think the real issue that Afra's getting at is not that its a "grown man" that she's having to attend to, but another person period. I, a very long time ago, was once a doormat for someone. I swear to God, it was the most unhealthy thing ever. Alhumdulillah, I saw the light. I didn't care that I was making someone feel better, building up their self esteem, and destroying their insecurities. Taking on someone else's battles was and is hard. And that's what Afra is thinking about. Again hopefully iA, she'll be able to make the best decision for herself
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