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Old 03-13-2008, 10:05 PM
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Default Re: Female Personal Hygiene

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Originally Posted by afrakabob View Post
would you stay with someone who you cared deeply for... who was completely devoted to you and would do anything to make you happy, but who had painfully low self-esteem and was a little unstable when it came to his iman?

what if he had a questionable track record in the past and (thus) a lot of baggage?
As long as you're not sacrificing your well being - mental and physical, then I guess go for it. Having to constantly build up someone's self-esteem is draining. And if his iman is unstable, how can you guarantee that your trying to strengthen it and help him won't back fire? Some people get annoyed when you're constantly in their face with Islam, you know what I mean? Anyway, I hope whatever you choose to do, its the best for you, iA .
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