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Originally Posted by Sugarberry
sorry if somone asked this ...( to lazy to go back)
but i dont understand how *not* living with your in-laws would harm your marriage...or did i just understand that wrong?
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i'm desi and "we" meaning my family we all tend to live together. Parents live with their sons. And my hubby is a really nice family oriented guy who would never tell his parents, no you can't live with me and my wife. Islamically i have a right to have my own house, but culturly we're suppose to take care of our parents/elders. So if i say to him that i will absolutely NOT live w/his parents, this WILL affect our marriage. Of course if the tables are turned, and my sis-in-law (bro's wife) tells my parents that they can't live w/her, i will be really pissed too.
I hope you get it now..if not PM..i'll explain in details.
